I just mean in general. I heard somewhere a different take on things that's kinda new to me.
Be prepared, it gets kinda sappy.
I'm used to love being an emotion, a feeling you have for someone or something.
I think I mentioned a while back, it's like a chemical reaction.
A 'thing'.
But what if all it was, was hard work?
An 'action'. All it was was what you did to make it work, the effort exerted just for a happy existence.
It's not the same as attraction though. Attraction is what you feel for someone, the initial pull you get towards someone, the irrepressible urge to think about someone, the desire, lust, longing for something.
You can be attracted to someone but not love them and you can also love someone but not be attracted to them.
It makes sense though, you fall in love with someone which means you've just gotten over the initial attraction and starting to work past that to 'love'.
It's actually kind of a sad analogy for love, making it into just some arbitrary actions, dispelling the mystery, removing the romance.
Yet I still thought about it.
Maybe all we needed was hard work.
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